What do we really want ?
We all have this Question , every now and then … and a general answer would be happiness. we wants to be happy.
But have you ever seen a person who is always happy ?
Difficult to find one because happiness is a emotion & we do not stay in only one emotion. All the external things effects tries to effect our emotion.
A second answer Would be success.
But there are many people who are very successful but still not happy & Commit suicide. Success not necessary makes a person happy . And Success differs from person to person .
An another answer could be freedom ? … We love Freedom . We crave for Freedom. And this appear to be most important need than ever during Coronavirus Lockdown . Hahaha
Anyway coming back to the point , We need Different kind of freedom. Freedom of Finance . Freedom from Relationship restriction . Freedom of Free time .
Also freedom doesn't give you happiness…
A Person might be free and enjoying games and movies . But he will need success .
A person who is jobless is all the free but searches for job
A recently divorced person is recently divorced is free to enter in any new relationship but he might not be happy
A person who is homeless could go anywhere but wishes for home to stay.
Also a person who is Successful might not be Free .
So, We need all of these things.
- Happiness
- Success
- Freedom
And one more thing, we don't need it in one at time , but all 3 of them together.
And also not for few days , weeks or months… but for long time time. For DURABLE time .
Thus, this four things act as pillars of life & all together makes our life "DURABLE FULFILMENT". Durable fulfilment means long lasting happy satisfying life.
To build up these pillars, we have to pursue them with our certain resources in Our "BOUNDARY" to achieve them. The base pillar was boundary. in our previous blog and last video we have discussed about it in detail. Let's look at this resources
1) Emotions - our emotions are responsible for our happiness.
We need to work on 2 emotions to achieve happiness
A) wellbeing - it refers to feeling of needs are met, nurtured like Mobil oil in bike from video 2 fuels of life.
B) confidence - power on which we run, risk & action taking capability Like petrol in bike from video 2 fuels of life.
2) Intellect-our intellect is responsible for success.
Why a doctor is paid more then accountant ?
Because doctor possess a more unique knowledge then accountant.
Of course, we need to put in action this knowledge else it cant be monetized.
3) Decision - our decisions are responsible for our decision
- It's your decision to marry or stay single
- It's your decision to do a job or try to open a business.
- It's your decision to give up your couple of hours in entertain someone or finding a means to say no to save those hours.
We all have this Question , every now and then … and a general answer would be happiness. we wants to be happy.
But have you ever seen a person who is always happy ?
Difficult to find one because happiness is a emotion & we do not stay in only one emotion. All the external things effects tries to effect our emotion.
A second answer Would be success.
But there are many people who are very successful but still not happy & Commit suicide. Success not necessary makes a person happy . And Success differs from person to person .
An another answer could be freedom ? … We love Freedom . We crave for Freedom. And this appear to be most important need than ever during Coronavirus Lockdown . Hahaha
Anyway coming back to the point , We need Different kind of freedom. Freedom of Finance . Freedom from Relationship restriction . Freedom of Free time .
Also freedom doesn't give you happiness…
A Person might be free and enjoying games and movies . But he will need success .
A person who is jobless is all the free but searches for job
A recently divorced person is recently divorced is free to enter in any new relationship but he might not be happy
A person who is homeless could go anywhere but wishes for home to stay.
Also a person who is Successful might not be Free .
So, We need all of these things.
- Happiness
- Success
- Freedom
And one more thing, we don't need it in one at time , but all 3 of them together.
And also not for few days , weeks or months… but for long time time. For DURABLE time .
Thus, this four things act as pillars of life & all together makes our life "DURABLE FULFILMENT". Durable fulfilment means long lasting happy satisfying life.
To build up these pillars, we have to pursue them with our certain resources in Our "BOUNDARY" to achieve them. The base pillar was boundary. in our previous blog and last video we have discussed about it in detail. Let's look at this resources
1) Emotions - our emotions are responsible for our happiness.
We need to work on 2 emotions to achieve happiness
A) wellbeing - it refers to feeling of needs are met, nurtured like Mobil oil in bike from video 2 fuels of life.
B) confidence - power on which we run, risk & action taking capability Like petrol in bike from video 2 fuels of life.
2) Intellect-our intellect is responsible for success.
Why a doctor is paid more then accountant ?
Because doctor possess a more unique knowledge then accountant.
Of course, we need to put in action this knowledge else it cant be monetized.
3) Decision - our decisions are responsible for our decision
- It's your decision to marry or stay single
- It's your decision to do a job or try to open a business.
- It's your decision to give up your couple of hours in entertain someone or finding a means to say no to save those hours.
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